Dirty Lola X HMU Present: Sex Ed A Go Go

Sep 21st
11 PM - 2 AM
  • Hosted by Hit Me Up
  • New York, NY -
  • 15 people on the list-

Welcome to New York’s ONLY sex and body-positive talk and variety show hybrid, hosted by the indomitable Dirty Lola

21+ only. This event is open to the public.

Welcome to New York’s ONLY sex and body-positive talk and variety show hybrid, hosted by the indomitable Dirty Lola, a sex educator and dildo slinger who has made her name making sex education fun and empowering, as seen on Netflix & HBO!

This is our first Sex Ed A Go Go in NYC since 2020, and I am SOOOOO Excited to be teaming up with Hit Me Up to bring this show back to life! There will also be a market and mingling ahead of the show and performances starting.

Sex Ed A Go Go is the only place you can ask frank questions and hear a real, raw, and cheeky conversation about bodies, fetishes, relationships, and other sex-related subjects from sex education and sex industry professionals and see some of NY's hottest Go Go, Burlesque and Drag Acts. Oh! Can't forget the swag! Every guest goes home with sexy goodies, and a few lucky winners will go home with the juiciest raffle prize packs you've ever seen. Grab a friend and join Lola and her Pussy Posse for a night you'll never forget!

Who should come? Anyone looking for sex-positive entertainment. Fans of Burlesque, Go Go and Drag. We welcome folks of all orientations, genders, and relationship structures.

What do I bring? Bring cash for the performers and the raffles. BYOB, mixers provided.

Dress code: There's no enforced dress code, wear what makes you feel good. No nudity though.

Ticket types and prices: this event has a sliding scale ticket price structure as we recognize that folks have different access to financial resources. All ticket types are for the same experience. $30 is considered the "base" price for this event. If you are able to pay more, you can select the $40 option. If money is tighter, please select the $20option. If $20 is prohibitively expensive please contact us at

Volunteers: We are looking for volunteers to help set up and work the door at this event. To volunteer please reach out to Volunteers receive free entry to the event.

Accessibility: The venue has an elevator and no steps in to the building. Please email for accessibility questions.

Covid Safety: Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the party. Just email and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.

10% of all Hit Me Up profits go to charity. This month's charity is Transgender Law Center (TLC). TLC is the largest national trans-led organization advocating for a world in which all people are free to define themselves and their futures.



What is Hit Me Up?

Hit Me Up is New York City’s curated community for poly and kink. We run meetups, parties, and teach kink at House of Yes, Caveat, Torture Garden, and other venues around the city.

We got our start running small events for our friends that quickly outgrew multiple venues. Now we have our own space and we are working to build the kink and poly community that NYC deserves—safer, friendlier, and weirder.

Why is Hit Me Up different?

Our core value at Hit Me Up is that poly and kink should be FUN. We balance accessibility and friendliness with a selective approach to membership to ensure that we get to hang out and play in the community we want to exist. Safety and respect are the only things we always take seriously.

How do you keep your events safe?

❣️ Our rules are actually enforced. If we say there’s a dress code, we will actually turn away anyone who doesn’t put in the effort to follow it. See our full consent policy for more details.

❣️ We don’t oversell our events. There will always be space to breathe, to get away, and to get into what you’re into.

❣️ Aggressive, cruising, and abusive behavior are dealt with quickly.

❣️ Complaints and reports get action. We will never choose an extra ticket sale over risk to our members.

We are the guardians of the community, the space and the vibe, and we take that responsibility seriously. All of these things add up, and we think it shows in our membership and the incredible and weird things that can happen at our events.

How Do I Become A Member?

To join Hit Me Up, go to and fill out the application. It helps if you have an existing member to put down as vouching for you, but it’s not necessary. Membership is completely free, and is purely for vetting and safety purposes.

Can I get in touch with you?

Feel free to email us, Hit Me Up is run by Alice and Hawthorne, two sexy weirdos who get off on making truly magical events.

For regular updates and educational content, follow us on instagram: @hitmeupnycity

That was a lot of reading, huh? Here's the thing—our ideal members are ones who read all the way to the end. Thanks for being with us. (Or just skipping to the end like an impatient middle schooler. For shame!)

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