Intro to Erotic Intelligence w/ Shekina Ray & Shiva J

  • San Diego, CA
  • Event by TantraSD

Deepen connections, set boundaries and create safe space for intimacy with the Erotic Intelligence Workshop!

Welcome to the Intro to Erotic Intelligence workshop!

  • Are you tired of the Tinder and dating app crowd?
  • Are you unsatisfied with superficial physical experiences and looking for more authentic connection?
  • Has the “Me too” trend made you uncertain about approaching women?
  • Would you like to develop a deeper and more meaningful connection with your partner?

What is Erotic Intelligence?

Erotic Intelligence is having the capacity to trust yourself, to be in touch with your own body, your boundaries, feel your own energy and create meaningful connection with your partner(s) physically and energetically.

Through a series of playful activities and exercises, you will learn how to:

  • Shake off negative emotions (Kundalini shaking exercise).
  • Boundary exercises - Learn to feel good about saying yes and saying no and getting really clear on what works for you.
  • Develop a more intuitive touch as you learn to sense and move your energy.
  • Deepen your connection as you develop your ability to sense your partner’s energy and the energy of others around you.
  • Authentically engage with your partner and feel truly seen and heard by them.

All playful activities and exercises will be guided and are optional in a safe and nurturing environment. You can do the entire workshop by yourself or with a partner or in groups. Participants are asked to practice with each other or by yourself in whatever manner supports you best. All activities and exercises will be guided and are always optional. Please wear loose, comfortable clothing.


Saturday April 1st 2023


  • Doors Open: 2:30pm
  • Event starts: 3:00pm (no one admitted after event begins)
  • Event ends: 6:30pm

Love Exchange:

  • Early Bird: $33
  • Regular: $44
  • Day Of: $55


The Kundalini Kastle Old Town San Diego, CA. 92110

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PAYMENT AND REFUNDS Please pay online using Eventbrite for a guaranteed reservation. Tickets will NOT be offered at the door. If you reserve and then find you cannot make it we will give you a credit for the next event ‘if’ you contact us and let us know. There is no refund or credit if you don’t show up. For credit to be applied we must have an email with your request on file prior to the start of the event. Refunds are only available if you give us 72 hrs notice.

NOTE: This is the introductory course to the Erotic Intelligence - Level 1 weekend workshop on May 27th & 28th 10am to 5pm

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~ Shekina Ray is an international Energy Healer and Tantra Teacher. She has been teaching different energy healing modalities for 20+ years worldwide. She is a Reiki Master, Matrix Energetics and Reconnective Healing Practitioner, Access Consciousness Facilitator and Tantra Educator. She enjoys encouraging people to find ways to express themselves and teaches a variety of classes to help people discover their passions, love and accept themselves, build their self-esteem and help them to be comfortable and confident about their body and sexuality.

~ Shiva J is a Somatic Bodyworker, Tantra Teacher, Kundalini Yoga Instructor, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Clinical Hypnotherapist, and Master NLP Practitioner who has been in the world of transformational work since 2003.

He is also the creator of The Heart Centered Being LLC a coaching and consulting company whose primary mission is to provide access to transformational programs and build communities focused on healing from trauma.

Creating and holding space for these fun conscious juicy experiences is what lights him up! His gift to you for this event will be holding space for a delicious opening & closing circle, and co-creating a safe container where you will dive deep into an orgasmic experience of sensual delights and leading you on a journey through the depths of your heart space!

Shiva J is available for private sessions, workshops and group programs

Shiva J is also a Facilitator for Tantra Speed Date® San Diego and Cuddle Party San Diego


“What can I say except that Shekina Ray is an extraordinary woman! Her positive energy and light approach to sharing her knowledge and experience was a delight! I felt very comfortable and at ease whilst we explored our personal energies and those of others. What struck me most was the clarity and simplicity of her communication. I always felt at a point of choice and learnt to apply simple principles of personal boundaries. It was also a pleasure to be among people with genuine curiosity about their erotic selves. Highly recommended!” ~ David Richter

“I can only put the workshop to heart. I was in London and I'm totally thrilled. The light open and playful kind of Shekina makes it easy to engage in the process. I have been able to get many aspects of intimacy and sensitivity and in my consciousness, of which my soul has long felt that these are the core of relationships. Just the right thing for everyone to feel that there must be more depth. Thank you Shekina ” ~ Nadja M. – Stuttgart, Germany

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