Manifesting Relationships, Situationships & Flirtationships in 2023

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Create an intentional plan for your dating, romantic, intimate, sexy or kinky life for the year ahead at this hybrid (in-person/virtual event!

  • Are you ready to create or manifest your ideal relationships, kinky flirtationships, out-of-the-box situationships, and meaningful friendships, but you’re not sure where to begin?
  • Maybe you’re looking for tips to improve the current connections and partnerships in your life?
  • Have your identities or relationship-style shifted and you’re not sure where to begin?

Whether it’s platonic partnerships, intimate partnerships, casual dating, and everything in between, the sky’s the limit when it comes to designing it all!

Join us in-person or virtually for this event designed to help you discover what you want in your dating/relationship life through practical tips that are self-care centered. We'll also be including some movement and mindfulness exercises to help us get out of our heads and into our bodies as we think about these topics.

This event is designed to help individuals who want to get focused and intentional in their dating, romantic, partnered, and kink lives and find others who are enthusiastic about who you are and what you’re consciously creating.

We will focus on the following areas…

  • Identities, Intentions, Goals & Objectives
  • Setting & Updating Boundaries
  • Likes, Dislikes, Non-negotiables (your dream list)
  • Capacity (time, emotional availability, number of partners, etc)
  • Dealing with Nervousness & Reframing Rejection

Bring a notebook, journal, or take notes on your phone! You’ll essentially be creating a personalized dating/relationship user’s manual that can be used as a personal reference for what you want to create or can be given potential partners to essentially give them a you-focused ‘how-to’ cheat sheet.

This is an event for humans 18+ of all genders, identities, orientations, and lifestyles!


6:30p PT - doors open, get settled, snacks, social time

7-9:30p PT - workshop & embodiment exercises (in-person & online)

9:30-10p PT - Q&A / social time


Virtual attendees will be sent zoom link as the event approaches! This event will be recorded. Recording will be sent out after the event and will be accessible for 7 days.


There will be social time before and after this event. There is street parking and metered parking. We recommend using the residential side streets for free parking...PLEASE READ SIGNS AS SOME STREETS ARE PERMIT ONLY! If you need special arrangements due to a disability, please contact us at so we can help accommodate you!


Erin's VIP ticket option includes a 1-on-1 coaching session (1 hour virtual or in-person) that will serve as a deeper dive to this event to be scheduled at a later date. VIPs can also design their own coaching session to dive into any topic under the umbrella of sex-positivity, dating, kink, or lifestyle.

CJ's VIP ticket option includes a 1-on-1 “Fall in love with yourself” session. (90 minutes plus free intro call, virtual or in-person) Guided practices and tools to rekindle your relationship with your whole self, using writing, reflection, imagery, sensory feedback, music, self-compassion and communication exercises. To be scheduled after purchase.



Erin Tillman, CSE (she/her) is an inclusive Certified Sex Educator, Dating & Consent Empowerment Coach, Author, Speaker, and Media Personality based in LA. She is also the current Executive Director of sexuality nonprofit Sex-Positive Los Angeles. In 2021, Erin’s book, The Consent Guidebook was selected by AASECT (The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists) to receive their 2021 General Audience Book Award. In 2018, Erin was awarded the Gender Equity Champion Award presented by the California National Organization for Women (California NOW). For over 10 years, she has been dedicated to empowering singles in all lifestyle and identity categories to have enjoyable dating lives, relationships, and partnerships through personal development and boundary-setting techniques. Find her @DatingAdviceGrl on IG and Twitter.

Carla “CJ” Truax, MPH (she/her) is a dedicated health educator who leads wellness workshops for organizations and provides support for anyone facing long-term illness, injuries, chronic pain, stress and burnout. She completed her Master of Public Health degree at the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine, focusing on health promotion and communication. Her career in education and the health sciences includes over a decade at the Environmental Health Centers in the Department of Preventive Medicine at USC. Most recently, she led a training program for community health workers at Charles R. Drew University that was the first of its kind. She specializes in making health research understandable and applicable to our daily lives, while also advocating for increased awareness of newer research on mind-body medicine and alternative treatments. CJ’s personal experience and challenges with chronic health conditions has shaped her perspective and strengthened her desire to connect with others. She believes our definition of health should include happiness, a healthy and equitable physical and social environment, and community support. Connect with her @ConnectionWellnessCJ


910WeHo is a queer & kink-friendly space in the heart of West Hollywood. Our space is open and inclusive to all LGBTQIA+ folks and we offer a variety of events and programs that cater to everyone in the community!

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