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On-Demand | Beyond Non/Monogamies: Relationship Anarchy, Uncertainty, Indeterminism, Nihilism w/ Ley David Elliette Cray


Settle in this holiday season and catch up on the best workshops that Bloom has offered over the last year!

Revisit our best Bloom workshops and spend your break exploring power dynamics, kink, jealousy, or one of many other juicy topics from the Bloom archive.

Each workshop can be watched on-demand for $15 between December 15-January 15th. SuperBloomers pay $10 per recording.

Watch all 15 workshops for $100 (or $70 if you are a SuperBloomer):


We all know that binaries in gender and sexuality are restrictive and boring—but what about binaries like monogamy vs. non-monogamy? Drawing from recent research and scholarship in a variety of fields as well as from personal experiences and testimony, we'll explore spaces and practices that don't fit so neatly into a non/monogamous framework.

Building off of Andie Nordgren's characterization of relationship anarchy and Meg-John Barker's discussions of relationship uncertainty, we'll go further and explore frameworks of relationship indeterminism and relationship nihilism. Along the way, we might just discover some new relationship practices that work most effectively in our own lives. You'll leave with more confidence to pursue a fun and fulfilling sex life no matter if it's for a night or for a lifetime.

Introducing Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD

Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they) is an author, activist, coach, consultant, and educator specializing in gender, sexuality, relationship diversity, and neurodiversity. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching and currently serves as GSRD Content Specialist for the Sexual Health Alliance, where she also co-facilitates the Kink-Informed Certification Program with Midori. You can read more about her work at

🎟️ This event offers discounted pricing to SuperBloomer members. SuperBloomer tickets are only available on the Bloom app. Download to access yours! 🎟️