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Queer Speed Dating: Valentine's Remix

  • San Diego, CA -

Get ready for a fabulous evening of love, laughter, and connection at Queer Speed Dating: Valentine’s Remix!

Calling all polyamorous, non-monogamous, or single LGBTQIA+ folx age 21+, to join us for a night of unforgettable experiences. Singles, couples, throuples, everyone is welcome! Meet a friend, find pleasure, or start your next romance.

Our curated speed dating sessions ensure that you'll have the opportunity to connect with a variety of wonderful people. The relaxed and inclusive atmosphere creates the perfect space to be yourself, without any judgments or expectations.

With a vibrant and diverse crowd, you can expect to engage in meaningful conversations and find your next great friends and partners. Don't miss this chance to explore the world of dating in a fun, safe, and affirming environment.


February 15th

7:00-7:30PM Grab a drink or some food and meet other attendees.

7:30-9:00PM Speed dating time! Please note, if you arrive after 7:30 you may not be admitted to the event. Registration fees are not refundable.

You’ll have additional time for mingling after the event incase you want to meet and talk with someone you didn’t get to have a date with.

How many dates will I get?

You will have 7 dates. Each date will last approximately 7 mins with brief intermissions for bathroom breaks, drink refills, etc.

What if I like / don’t like a date?

After each date, you’ll privately indicate whether or not you’re interested in connecting further with that date as friends or ‘open to more.’ After the event, we’ll gather your responses, and put you in touch with all of your mutual matches. Think of it like Tinder swiping… but in real life.

Who’s facilitating this?

Coach Alex Ray - he/she/they, an internationally Certified Life Coach who specializes in LGBTQIA+ Confidence & Authenticity.

Brian Locascio, MT-BC - they/them, a nationally Certified Music Therapist and Queer Mental Health Professional.

I’m Trans, will I be respected?

Abso-fucking-lutely! We have a zero tolerance policy for acting like an asshole at our events. Being rude or disrespectful towards anyone at the event equals immediate dismissal and could result in a ban from any of our future events. If you feel uncomfortable let one of us facilitators know and we’ll handle it.

Price - $20 (goes up to $25 on Feb 8)

Please note all ticket sales are final. This is a non-refundable event.

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