Bloom Community

Relational Mapping

Oct 4th
10 PM - 12:30 AM
  • 28 people on the list-

Cherish the relationships you already have, see your inner circle more clearly, and clarify what you desire next in your relational life.

This workshop is designed to support you to observe your inner circle specifically:

  1. Who are your current secure bonds?
  2. What kind of connection do you have with your closest people?
  3. What do you desire next as you grow your inner circle?

This clarity will support you to discern if you want to connect with new people, who you want to connect with, and how. It’s a compass so you may bring clarity to your connections, grounded in your existing relational ecosystem and your intentions for your relational life.

This workshop was designed with support from Jessica Fern, author of Polysecure. It is one of the most popular and effective tools in my coaching practice.

Our time together includes:

  • What is secure attachment?
  • Distinguishing visionary reality from physical reality in relationships
  • Make a map of your 3 to 8 closest people
  • Observe how secure your connections are in this moment
  • Clarify the kinds of connection you value most (look at 18 kinds of intimacy)
  • Which kinds of connection occur with your closest people
  • What are you cherishing?
  • What are you hungry for?
  • Takeaways & gratitude

Join us from a computer where you can open and edit a google doc. Join from a quiet space where you can easily participate in a break out room.

This workshop will not be recorded. I am offering it at two different times to make it more accessbile across time zones:

  • Thurs, Sept 28, 6 - 8:30 pm pst/9 - 11:30 pm est
  • Wed, Oct 4, 3 - 5:30 pm pst/6 - 8:30 pm est

Is this the right thing at the right time?

If you are experiencing a lot of grief from a recent separation or de-escalation, you may be more supported by starting with Grieving Partnership with an Open Heart.

Image "The Guide of Souls" by Autumn Skye

About the facilitator:

Z (aka Zahava Griss, pronouns: they/them) is the founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. Z has delighted in guiding erotic empowerment for 24 years! Learn more about love coaching for individuals and couples here.