Shall we create a life together?

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Clarify what you want so you can design aligned relationships

Someone's beauty and purpose lights you up. You are attracted and you sense it may be mutual. How do you create the clarity, focus, and spaciousness to explore aligned relationship?

We live in a society with many assumptions about what partnership should look like. These social constructs around marriage and monogamy were designed for a power system that viewed a wife as the property of her husband. They were designed to build and pass along wealth and control for a specific elite group to maintain white supremacy, monogamy, heterosexism, capitalism.

How do we interrupt these constructs and the oppression they perpetuate to create aligned relationships based in love and mutual respect? How do we get creative and clarify what's most important together?

Come join this group coaching session for people seeking a new partnership or to strengthen existing partnership(s). Whether you are monogamous or poly you are welcome. This workshop is part of a series of workshops to support you in creating aligned relationships.


  • You will learn 18 specific types of connection. This will give you a more nuanced and precise way to identify the sweetest ways you want to connect in partnership.
  • Laser coaching if you what to have a breakthrough around an internal stopping point.
  • Practice speaking about what you're looking for in a supportive space.
  • Underneath the oxytocin and excitement of a new connection, slow down and sense if the kind of connection you are each seeking is in harmony.
  • If you are in a relationship, pause and observe where your connection is already strong and how you might want to grow it together.
  • If you've been poly and you're looking for a steady secure bond with someone, this is a great opportunity to expand your awareness and get more clear.
  • If you've settled for relationships that are not fulfilling out of fear of being alone, this is a powerful invitation for brave observation and to open your eyes to a more aligned possibility.

This session will not be recorded. Join from a computer where you have steady wifi and the ability to engage a google doc.

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It helps me to know who is coming and anticipate the size of our group. I customize this work to serve the people who show up to it. I also go into a ritual to prepare and will not be on my devices answering last minute questions. I love your questions, simply ask me before the day of :) Tickets will close 1 hour before the workshop to give everyone time to orient. The zoom link will go out 1 hour before the workshop, check your spam if you don't see it.

Image above from Max Pixel on Creative Commons Zero - CC0.

Want to go deeper? Schedule a chat to explore Love coaching (6 month container for individuals & couples)

About the facilitator:

Z (aka Zahava Griss, pronouns: they/them) is the founder of Embody More Love, a spiritual kinky dance community for personal and cultural liberation. Z offers love coaching for individuals and couples.

Z has been dancing since 1982, training in ballet, modern, West African, Middle Eastern, Sufi dancemeditation, burlesque and contact improv. Z has had the honor of dancing with many legendary choreographers including the Joffrey Ballet, Katherine Dunham, Urban Bush Women, Tania Isaac, Wanjiru Kamuyu, and Mana Hashimoto. Z trained at the Juilliard School, Tisch School of the Arts, North Carolina School of the Arts, the Alvin Ailey School, the Princeton Ballet, Sarah Lawrence College, the Liz Lerman Dance Exchange, Oh!ni Sowa (Ghana), and Marie Basse Wiles (Senegal.) Z learned how differently cultures define what dance is, as well as community, sexuality, soul, and our relationship with the Earth.

Z is certified in Yoga for Birth, Esalen Massage, Deep Bodywork, Urban Tantra, Pilates, Health Coaching, and Femme. Z is a coach and trainer with the Academy for Coaching Excellence. Z has been an organizer and core teacher for the international festival Touch&Play, 2016 to 2019, as well as a touring performance artist and author. Powerful influences include Sobonfu Some's Grief Rituals, Sufi whirling, and Sexual Shamanism with Sun Dancer, Kenneth Ray Stubbs. Z directed Spiritual Nourishment for Conscious Activism in collaboration with Deepak Chopra and has been listening to, speaking in, and facilitating spaces to acknowledge and transform white privilege since 1999, including work with the People's Institute for Survival and Beyond, Sarah Lawrence College, the Re-Evaluating Counseling community, the national White Privilege Conference, and co-organizing the White Privilege Symposium. Z co-founded White Folks Soul, By Any Dance Necessary, a dance company exploring the incompatibility of wholeness and the race construct for white people.

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