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So You Like A Service Submissive?: Intentional Speed Dating

Aug 17th
11 PM - 1 AM
  • Hosted by SheMagick Events
  • NY -
  • 20 people on the list-

Join us in Brooklyn on Thursday, Aug 17th, 7-9 pm, for a night of intentional speed dating. Wondering what the hell Intentional Speed Dating is? Why, thanks for asking!

Intentional Speed Dating is speed dating with the added bonus of bringing together more niche groups of people. Yes, we all enjoy BDSM, play, and have fetishes, but this speed dating event is for a more specific group. On August 17th, the night will be all about those who identify as service submissives and those who are looking for a special service sub to call their own.

On this night, you won't get lost in the crowd because the crowd is all about service, service, and more service. While this won't be a play party, there will be a few small opportunities to serve the Dominants throughout the night.

What Can You Expect?

The night will start with icebreakers to help the entire group get to know one another. Then there will be opportunities to serve (public & nonsexual acts): get a dominant a drink, pull out a chair, set up the speed dating table, etc. Service Subs: You DO NOT have to participate in serving. You don't have to explain your reasons, simply step to the side and wait until that is done. Lastly, the speed dates will begin. Each date will involve two-three timed sections to allow for a deeper connection.

Dress Code

We ask that folks dress nicely. This is a subjective word. So to help with that, we ask that you dress to impress. Dress as you would to attend a company event. Whether the company you think of is artistic or corporate, dress with intention and care. Pull out the cute top, the nice jeans, the sexy shoes. Come ready to meet your person! Have a question? Ask.

COST: $20

As with all SheMagick Events, this event is for female-identified, non-binary, and GNC Dominants and the folks that love us. We are a Queer and BIPOC-centered group.

The event venue serves snack food (mozzarella sticks, tots, fries, etc.) and both alcoholic and nonalcoholic drinks. Card, Google Pay, and Apple Pay are accepted only. In other words, a cashless venue.